Just one of them days, that a girl goes through ;o) I mean I can't lie, it hasn't been a bad day, overall, it's been pretty decent. I spent the day with my two loves, and my soulmate at the pool, over looking the intercoastal, I mean, really what do I have to complain about? (By soulmate, I don't mean my husband, I mean my best friend Sarah, I have two soulmates, I'm pretty stinkin lucky! BE JEALOUS!).
But tonight, I was reading through some former wives blogs. Wives who's husbands have paid the ultimate sacrifice and of course I became emotional.
This life really isn't easy. People have said we "chose" this, but do you "choose" who you fall in love with? No, absolutely not. Yes, I knew my husband was a Marine when I met him, but that doesn't mean I "chose" this lifestyle. For one, I didn't realize what I was getting myself into, and you never really know or understand until you live it. But secondly, would I have made a different decision knowing that we would face so much time apart? Absolutely NOT. I love him, he's the man I was destined to be with, why would I settle for less? I'd wait forever, if thats what it took.
I just wish times were easier, and that no family would have to go without their loved one, whether it's a brother, sister, mother, father, spouse, daughter, son, or grandchild, it makes NO difference. It's all the same.
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