Life during deployment

I can't tell you how involving the children really does help. More so for Chelsea, then Gavin. I didn't include Gavin in on the making of the packages (it's much easier to do while he's napping). The girl loved cutting out letters, using the hot glue gun and applying the stickers.  Each package includes that of the theme. For example the fathers day package had a card, a gift, sugar daddy and sugar baby candies ;) Seemed only appropriate, haha. Hershey kisses with a note that read "Sending you lots of kisses". Along with some other stuff he had requested.

In the next few days we plan on making a wishing tree. Basically you write your wishes for daddy on yellow ribbon and tie it on the plants branches. It may seem silly to some, but it makes all the difference for Chelsea. And really, thats all that matters. Making her feel better, special and making this time apart from her daddy that much easier. Besides the little crafts occupy the time.



"A kiss a day, while daddies away" Candy jar countdown (203 days)



First time skyping with him

She was so excited to help with the first two carepackages-and eager to make more!!



I've also given her more responsibilities, such as putting the dishes away, letting the dog out, giving him fresh water and food occassionally. I'm learning to ease up, and not let my fear of a mess get in the way of allowing Chelsea to grow up. She's been begging me to allow her to make her own food, so every once in a while I allow her to make herself lunch (just a simple sandwhich), but  It makes her feel important and like a big girl. Probably sounds crazy to you, "Whats the big deal, she's going to be six she can make herself a meal",...but you don't understand my anxiety of crumbs, filth or a pile up. It has a lot to do with my background and up bringing. But gradually I'm easing up, baby steps is the key here =P

To change what you've been doing you're entire life is impossible to do overnight, recognizing the problem, is the first step to a solution.