Learning to accept people for who they are, even if they change. Learning to let go of who they "were", accept who've the've "become", and accept who they'll "be".
"Change; we don’t like it, we fear it, but we can't stop it from coming. We either adapt to change or we get left behind. And it hurts to grow, anybody who tells you it doesn’t is lying. But here's the truth...the more things change, the more they stay the same. And sometimes, oh, sometimes change is good. Oh, sometimes, change is...everything."
People are allowed to change. We can change our minds, change our attitudes, change our personalities, change our wants and needs. People may form an opinion initially, and once they gain knowledge, or experience, they may find they were completely WRONG. Life happens. It's completely alright. I can't judge anyone on that, because we all go through cycles of it.
I've changed, who hasn't? I think I've changed for the better. But sometimes we can change for the worst. Who's to say people ever changed at all? Maybe you didn't know them as well as you thought you had, and they just started showing the real them? I mean really, you only know so much about a person, only what they're willing to share.
I'm willing to accept our new found differences, but that doesn't mean I'll settle for less. Just means I'm able to acknowledge it, and see where it goes from there...
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